Had some interesting things happen to me lately.
It’s well known about me that I have a much wider range of size acceptance in the females I find attractive than many people — if you want to know more, I’ll talk your ear off, but that’s not the point of this post: suffice it to say that I have a fondness for curvy women that not many other people share in this skinny-focused society. I find pinups such as the ones done by Les Toil very attractive, for example. 1
Les Toil. There’s no sign that says, “We are selling these pinups by permission from Les.”
I’ve been to his site before — it’s hard not to be a size acceptance person and not know about him — I wanted to check to see if he knew about this place. So I wrote to him and asked him about it, and he let me know that he hadn’t given anyone on Second Life permission to sell his stuff, and would I speak to them about it before he has to turn to legal recourse? I said that I would, and I did.
These are extremely paraphrased communications, mind you, but here’s the gist of them:
I’m not worried about being banned — this is not the sort of place I need in my every day Second Life! But I really think it was a pretty childish thing to do.
Now, I realize he has rights under the DMCA, and he may yet to pursue them. I was only too happy to help because I am a big fan or Mr. Toil’s work, but I think, in the end, in order to be safe, he’s going to have to pursue DMCA takedown.
I hate getting involved in drama, but I felt this was a good cause. Still, it is amazing to me that people in Second Life have this capacity for self-deception. They think that just because it’s very easy to upload any texture they please, that they automatically own the textures, even when it’s someone else’s intellectual property.
Ah, well. Maybe someday when Mr. Paradise is older, he’ll create something — let’s say clothing or a new avatar or some kind of nifty something.… and he’ll have it taken and sold without his knowledge or permission. I wonder, then, how he will feel? I hope that doesn’t happen to him, but karma has a way of teaching you the lessons you need to know.
1 I think everyone should be allowed to feel beautiful, and I think Second Life is great for doing this. In fact, I have several friends who have not participated in Second Life because they had body dysmorphia: looking at a barbie-doll avatar was depressing to them, and the “slider bar” “big person” in SL is pretty ugly. So I’m on the lookout for pretty, curvaceous avatars that better match their body image.
2 BTW: I bet you there are plenty of Creative Commons or Fair Use pictures he could’ve used, if he had only searched around. But that would’ve required some effort, I imagine.

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